WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SAY ABOUT YOU IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS
Right I never do this, but I’m gonna speak personally here for a second…it won’t happen again so don’t get used to it. I write a pretty, shall we say, ‘out there’ blog. I am also not what you would call a ‘wallflower’. Some people will get me, many won’t. I can’t care about that otherwise it will send me stir crazy. Imagine if I heard everything that gets said about me? I’d probably throw myself off the nearest tall building … (we have a whole SEVEN of those to choose from here in Perth) My point is, with the good comes the bad. With the lovers come the haters. If you aren’t somebody who fades into the background then people will have opinions of you and not all of them will be positive. I wouldn’t say don’t care what people say about you, because I think a certain amount of criticism is a positive thing. As long as YOU are happy with yourself…and lets be honest, we always know what we wanna change. Surround yourself with good, non ‘people pleasers’ and listen to your intuition. The rest can go fuck themselves. So if you have non love for the Owl and you are reading this…then my message to you is, ‘Hey there! Thanks for reading toots’
GIRLS: STOP CALLING OTHER GIRLS ‘SLUTS’
As if we don’t get enough of that from dudes. Where has all the sisterhood love gone hmm? Yeah I get the vicious slang if some bird has shagged your man, but ‘slut’? Really? Just ’cause a girl gets a bit silky with the fellas and likes to take the odd lover, if she isn’t hurting anybody whats the problem? These girls are not sluts…THIS is a slut …
DON’T BE A DUMB ASS
Learn to change a tire. Learn how to cook. Stop losing shit and then making it everyone else’s problem. You wanna be independent? Big word. There’s a lot to it.
WHO HAS A ‘FRIEND’ ON FACEBOOK THAT ALWAYS SAYS THAT ‘YOU MUST CATCH UP’ AND THEY ‘MISS YOUR FACE’ BUT WHEN YOU SEE THEM OUT THEY ACT LIKE A STRANGER??
Beware of social leeches. Social networks make it so easy to be best friends with everyone, but sometimes it’s better to go back to basics and actually have some human contact from time to time. *sarcastic vibe intended…as if you don’t know that by now.
SOMETIMES WHEN YOU ARE GOING THROUGH A ROUGH TIME, YOU MAY THINK THAT EVERYONE ELSE AROUND YOU IS LIVING THE LIFE OF RILEY
But they might just be giving that impression because they don’t want to burden you with their shit because you are already such a miserable so and so. Not everything is always as they seem…actually, nothing is.
I’m not tryna claim perfection you know…some of these advice posts are letters to myself.