- How much is your friend actually into the dude? – If she is majorly gaga over homeboy, then leave well alone. There is plenty other penis’s attached to fine body’s we can devour. It’s a pretty cunty thing to make eyes at a good friends ‘sorta boyfriend but things haven’t been confirmed yet’. However, if you think that she isn’t that keen on him, then you could carefully manipulate the sitch. It will all fall out of bed eventually, and when it does, you can sneak up like a lioness on a wounded zebra. They do it on Gossip Girl like all the time.
- How good is your friend and how keen are you on fella? – Secret time. I have a friend. Who has a SMOKING hot ex. Not only is he easy on the eye, he has brains, braun and if rumours are correcto…he has been um, blessed. Now the friend…hmm, I suppose we’re good friends. But if she weren’t in my life, I probs would not notice. (sheesh I sound like a proper biatch) but anyway, all I’m saying is…you gotta weigh up the pro’s and con’s. It’s slim pickings out there as far as men go who tick the boxes, sometimes you gotta make sacrifices. That being said, I would only probably risk a friendship over someone I would actually like to pursue…not just for some genital stimulation. It’s not worth the gamble.
- Don’t get sucked in – Usually hot guys come with hot friends. Unlike chicks who enjoy having a few fuglys hanging about to make ourselves look better…God we’re cows. Anyway. If you are being hammered by some cutie and it’s early days, you will always be wondering if there may be someone better, and then you hang with their mates and someone catches your eye. It’s like a box of chocolates being offered around…you like them all, but you are only allowed to take one so you go for the truffle…’cause hey, you enjoy a good truffle and you know what you’re getting, and once you have eaten it, you can honestly say you enjoyed it but maybe you shoulda gone for a caramel ’cause that might have been more fun! So you take the caramel when no one is looking…and then you look like a little chocolate whore when you get caught out. Ya get me?
- Guys talk – Chances are, all of old mates friends would and have thought about banging you. But then you become the trick amongst the group and you can land up with no man, a vagina that has been the penis tour bus stop, and a bad reputation.
I think it boils down to what our intentions are. Is it because we actually fancy the guy, or because our hormones are livin la vida loca? Make sure that when one makes this decision, we use our brains and not our clits to do the thinking.
Love Owl xoxo