Picking up where I left off…am I even allowed? I think I am. It’s a free world after all. The bars we are locked behind are self made and the key is in our back pocket.
THE UNCOMFORTABLE THING TO DO IS MOST LIKELY THE RIGHT THING TO DO
So if you have been biting your nails since you were 6 years old it will feel as much as part of your make up as breathing. It will feel natural, despite all the bleeding cuticles and effed up fingers. Going to not bite them will feel unnatural (naturally) and therefore uncomfortable. This is called, as I like to say, flipping the conditioned mind and baby, it’s hard as fuck to do but like everything, it’s always hard in the beginning to change old habits. But you gotta chip away at it until your hands are looking schexy. Now clearly I am using the nail biting comparison so it is easy for ‘ya’ll’ to digest but what other ‘tings have you always done that you need to change? Chasing after someone who has proven multiple times that they are no good for you in the hope they may change/you may be wrong? Putting 4 sugars in your tea? Masturbating and crying when you should be at work? Embrace the discomfort of changing direction. You’re worth it.
DON’T SEND THAT 7TH TEXT/NUDE PIC/PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE TWEET OR ‘GRAM
It only feels good momentarily because at the time of insanity one feels justified in their behaviour. But come now, stop making me tell you things you already know.
JUST WRITE OR COOK OR DRAW OR DANCE OR SING OR WHATEVS
People are always always always gonna have something to say and we know this because we are the people. We fear judgement because we judge. Whatever you don’t like in others you are capable of doing yourself. Yes, even being a fuckwit.
NEVER COMPLAIN, NEVER EXPLAIN.
But always apologise when necessary. But don’t say sorry for being yourself. And yourself is not an asshole, so defs apologise for that because Lord Jesus, we can all be one of those.
TAKE HONEY IN YOUR COFFEE INSTEAD OF SUGAR
It’s the little changes that we consistently make that have a huge impact. Also, all sugar does is make things taste nice. All style, no substance. That’s sugar.
GIRLS: DON’T MISTAKE COMING FOR LOVING
It’s ok, we all do it. Stop biting your nails.